We found out yesterday (on 9/9/09, no less!) that we are having a little boy! I was secretly hoping that it would be a boy – not sure why. I would have been happy either way, but this way I am totally psyched!
The ultrasound tech took her time to measure everything from head to toe. At the end of the exam she said: “I know your baby’s sex. You probably can’t see it on the monitor, but I can see it and I know what it is.” Well, are you going to tell us woman????? Geeez… By the way, we could see it too. Ah, technology! It’s amazing!
We could see the baby move like it was going out of style – we could even see his little mouth moving. He’ll be a talker – I am sure he gets that from Drew. I’ve been feeling him move a lot too and it’s too bad that Drew can’t feel it yet. Soon, soon… That doesn’t stop him from keeping his hand on my belly nonstop, which is perfectly fine with me. I’ll take all the tummy time I can get! It goes well with the intense clingyness I’ve been feeling toward Drew. It’s SUPER annoying because I have never been clingy, but now I get bent out of shape when he has to work late. Ugh. Not an attractive side-effect or pregnancy!
The other surprise yesterday was that they moved my due date to 1/11/10 instead of 1/16. No biggie, really, but man, that would be another awesome date!
I can finally start shopping for baby stuff – so far the only things the kid has are a bunch of children’s books, a bottle, and a sample diaper. Oh, and a HUGE bag of big boy toys from my parents, including a soccer ball, baseball, football, Matchboxes… I guess it’s not a bad start, but I have an inkling that this will not be enough. We are hopefully buying a crib and changing table this weekend, along with a rug and curtains. I will also allow myself to go loose at the Carter’s outlet in Freeport. Watch out! I am also secretly thrilled that this will be a winter baby. I mean, check this out…It’s ridiculous, right?
On a more serious note… I’ve been taking a prenatal yoga class for the past couple of weeks, which has been a great way to stretch and relax. But what I love the most is the ability to chat with other pregnant ladies. During the first couple of weeks everyone’s been sort of reserved, but for the past few weeks we’ve been more chatty about baby stuff. In turn the instructor – who is also a midwife – has been giving great advice, answering questions, etc. It’s been awesome! Last week she talked about how important it was during labor to be able to say what we need – whether is quiet, or a backrub, or whatever. It turned into a long discussion about how husbands handle the situation and whether they rise to the occasion.
In the end, the midwife said that instead of worrying about whether our partners will be good enough supports, we should talk with them about what kind of parents we want to be. Labor is going take up one day – but then the real work will begin. I guess I knew that, but it was good to hear it and now I feel better about having a bit of a laissez faire attituted about the labor thing. Sure, I want a healthy baby and a healthy me, but the discussion about choices around giving birth is giving me a headache. Everyone (online or not) has an opinion and I just want to get there and see how it goes. Maybe that’s naive, but how can I possibly make a decision in advance about something that I have never experienced? So I am practicing my yoga breathing and thinking past that (hopefully) one day. It’s a relief, let me tell you!