Warning: over sharing happening below. If you are squeamish, turn away now.
Today was Operation “Turkey Basting” as Drew and I lovingly refer to a simple little procedure called intrauterine insemination. The doctor takes Drew’s sperm, and when my eggs are all happy and ready, he injects the boys into my uterus. Simple. So today right around noon, I found myself driving down Route 1 between Saco and Scarborough with a small jar of “sample” between my boobs.
The morning started with several dilemmas: What to wear? I had to keep the “sample” warm and stable. I opted for a simple black plunge bra that provides enough lift and separation to accommodate the jar. Perfect. Another thing to ponder: Turnpike or Route 1? I had exactly 30 minutes to make it to my doctor’s office, which on most days is enough, except for days when Saco decides to have the traffic of New York City.
I was lucky today and made it in less than 20 minutes. As I was walking from my car to the lab, I was amazed at how sort of nonchalantly I was able to walk around, knowing what was under my clothes. I even made small-talk in the elevator with another woman – who knows what she was hiding in her bra?
So, I went straight to the lab, where nurse Dolores asked me my birthday like, a hundred times. Then Drew’s birthday. Then the spelling of my name, followed by the usual “oh, that’s so pretty, where are you from?” comments. Come on woman! I’ve got a jar full of sperm under my shirt and we are discussing nationalities??? She finally got to the important part. “So, do you have the sample?” Well, yes I do. But what is the best way to get it out? There were other people around me and since I am still new at this, I was a little sheepish about handing some other woman my husband’s sperm practically in the middle of a waiting room. But there was nothing else to do, but to reach into my sweater and pull out the cup. Whew. Boys safely delivered. Dolores never batted an eye.
By that time Drew was there too and we spent an hour in the waiting room looking at magazines. Note to self: If I ever do get pregnant, I have to stay away from these. It seems like every single cute baby picture is followed by some horrific story about sore nipples and hemorrhoids. Ick.
The rest of the procedure was pretty painless and speckled with inappropriate sperm jokes courtesy of my doctor. He is awesome. I won’t know if this worked for a couple of weeks, but I hope that I will be able to find all of this funny even if I do have to do it two or three or four more times.